Do you love candles? Yep. Me too. Well, let me correct that statement… I did. It’s undeniable – not only do they make a space smell amazing but as soon as one is lit, the coziness of the area is amplified. Even if it’s in the dead of summer! We’ve always had them around our home for those reasons until I started really digging into our health and what could possibly be impacting our fertility journey.** That lead me to start researching everything we bring into our home (because ultimately, we are the gatekeepers of our home) including you guessed it, candles.
With just some preliminary knowledge on “fragrance” and a “are candles toxic?” Google search, I had a general idea of information I’d gather from people desiring to live more on the side of non-toxic lifestyle. Eliminating candles in our home is a big deal for me though, you guys. I didn’t want to simply stop using them because someone made a claim that they are “bad for you”. No. I needed to read actual studies on why they’re bad and make my own decision and base my opinion off of research, not just assumption.
So that’s what I did. I slipped back to my grad school habits and sifted through articles and journals of research. This time, however, it was not about foodborne pathogens, it was all about candles. I was on the hunt to determine if and why they should be something we consider replacing in our homes. Here are two main points from the information that I gathered:
I know I didn’t go into tremendous detail (you can read more from the references below if you wish!) but those two simple points were enough for us to make a change in our home. The thought of removing candles was a bit of an initial shock but considering we were able to replace them with something else, that shock wore off almost immediately and we do not miss them. Instead of burning candles, we create a “hygge” (a quality of coziness) environment by diffusing essential oils. Some added benefits of using essential oils in our diffusers are that it eliminates a potential fire hazard, they provide support for our emotions and immune system, and something that I was really shocked about… They’re more cost effective.
I will be the first to say that some Essential Oils can be pricy. At the beginning when we started using them, I was very skeptical. Without doing any math and with all health implications aside I thought, “There’s no way these oils are less expensive.” I was wrong. I put pencil to paper and started crunching all of the numbers against the candles that I would typically purchase from Bath & Body Works. A single bottle of essential oil may seem expensive, but I was failing to think of a few important things: I could use that one bottle to make dozens of blends and DIY recipes, a 15 ml bottle includes 255 drops!! and have I mentioned that essential oils can provide immune support and emotional support among many other things? Another thing I was skeptical about was the aroma they gave off. “Could a diffuser blend really smell like a Snickerdoodle or “Sweater Weather”?” I tested the blends to find out. YOU GUYS! They really do. The first time I put a “pumpkin spice french toast blend” in the diffuser I couldn’t wipe the smile off my face. It smelled like heaven! It’s also fun because you can follow a blend recipe (we have hundreds in our community that you’re joined into once you order a starter kit!) or customize your own and change it up whenever you want. If you want to burn the same blend like you’d burn for 30-45 hours with a candle, that’s perfectly fine too!
Some things I want to note about this comparison:
Are we glad we made the switch from candles to diffusing essential oils? Yep. We sure are. Not only are we eliminating a potential source of carcinogens and mutagens and improving our indoor air quality but we are also being more cost effective which is also really important to us.
If you have any questions about our journey towards a healthier + happier home, I’d be more than happy to answer them! You can reach out to me on firstname.lastname@example.org or on Instagram @jordyjeanwellness. You can also read all about the Starter Kit + Essential Rewards HERE. This journey has included some “rough” patches (i.e. getting rid of candles) but based on what the research is telling us, this is what is best for our health and happiness and the switch has been way easier than anticipated. We’re never going back! We’d love for you to join us on this journey.
**I never want to go without mentioning that our fertility journey is dependent upon God’s timing. Trust me, I know it so deep in my bones. But I also believe that I was guided down this path for a reason – for me to learn how to be as healthy as I (and my family) possibly can be and to teach others how to do the same. I’m so thankful for that nudge and the ability for me to put my science background and education to use.